Monday, February 26, 2007

"D--- Yankee Land"

Christmas in NJ and Central Park in New York City!

Life in the East. I know many of you are familiar with the East, but seeing as I feel it is a foreign land I've decided to start this blog up. If no one responds then so be it. One of my friends, you know who you are, put me up to it so I thought I'd give it a try. I've come to terms with living in New Jersey means you are sick all the time. Be it allergies or other illnesses because everyone lives close and no one cares not to share germs. I have a great excuse being pregnant, but what's that got to do with the hubby and kiddos sick all the time. Poor little B has been sick with something or other the most I think. This is all very odd to me because she was ultra-healthy in Utah. I have heard from many others that we are not an uncommon case. Why oh why do people live here forever??!! I for one can't wait to get out. That being said I do have a few good things to say about NJ. Ok, so nevermind. The only one I can think of is that the school system is good here. Sure there's great people here, but there are great people everywhere. I have to remind myself all the time that pretty much the one blarring reason we moved here rather than lovely, sunny CA is that we were told to. An answer from heart-felt prayer is nothing to argue against. Now that I am sounding very pessimistic, I will focus on family. They are my one saving grace. B is so cute and everyday asks me what we can clean during little J's nap. Her favorites to clean are the toilet (blah!), T.V. and sweeping and mopping the floor. I found her in the kitchen one day with the broom singing "Sweeping the floor is fun to do, fun to do, to do, to do!" Amazing. And one day while I was finishing lunch I had her prepare the bathroom floors to be swept. She came telling me she was done and I went to find the bath mats, her stool and the trash can all quite neatly set outside the door stacked up. It was one of the most adorable things I had every seen. She is quite the helper. Speaking of adorable, little J had his shining moment the other day. We'd gone out for Applebee's for big J's bday and the kids each got a balloon, which they both played with exuberantly in the car on the way home. Well, within 5 mintues of walking in the door with them still excited about their new toys, B pops hers and begins to wail. Little J, seeing her predicament with her balloon popped, still hanging onto the string and crying walks over to her and hands her his balloon and doesn't think another thing about it. Amazing. He seems far beyond his age to me in his level of understanding and thoughtfulness. He's quite the crack-up too. I get such a kick out of that little kid! And big J, super busy as he his, still finds time to be a husband and Daddy. I never thought I'd be going through this school thing again for so long. It's definitely a different life. I see the light at the end of the tunnel though. Many gross monsters along the way, but we'll get there. We'll pop out in 5 years and hopefully see the sunshine of the West telling us to come back to a normal way of life with mountains and Macey's grocery store and butterscotch pudding--see I told you it was foreign out here--and B's favorite, Otter Pops!

4 comments:

GustoBones said...

So great to hear a bit about your life in NJ. My parents relocated to the East about 7 years ago. I swear they live in a different world. When I visit, I feel like I have stepped into a new country. I love the West and hope to stay here forever. I admire your willingness to go where you feel like the Lord is leading you. Scott and I have often talked about moving to Utah because that is where we grew up, and we still have many family members that live there. However, when we visit there, which is often, we both feel the same thing. We aren't supposed to move there. At least not right now. I hope that that changes, but it may not. For now, I am trying to learn to love the incessant rain that the Northwest provides because I am crazy about the green beautiful Summer that follows. Life is good for us here, but we still don't feel like we have as close of friends as we did in CA. Perhaps it was our stage in life; just starting out with kids, jobs and first homes etc. I don't know quite what it is, but we do have awesome neighbors and we love that. Fun to read your blog!!!

Messimoo said...

Yea!!!!! I don't know if I was the one to put you up to it, but I am sooooooo excited. This is my second email today telling me that a friend has started a blog. Yippee!

Cheer up my dear, afterall, tomorrow is another day, right? You're awesome! I have to say, I definitely do miss you tons! Maybe I'll have to stop by good ol' Macey's for you!

Love ya bunches chica!

Sarah said...

Pamchanko! I am so happy to see that you are still using the nickname we gave you years ago in college, maybe that was Melanie that gave it to you. Anyway, you are not the first person that i have heard report not so stellar things about NJ. However, if you head just a few hours south to NC it is beautiful, sunny, and green, and some great camping sites too. We would stay here forever if we could talk some family into moving closer. We would love to have you anytime!

Clair said...

Pammers! So glad to see you've joined the world of blogging. I have two blogs I love it so much. haha. Can't wait to read all about your jersey adventures. xoxo, clair